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We do not permit any act of harassment, including harassment or discrimination that is based, in fact or perception, on an individual's sex, race, ethnicity, religion, national origin, disability, age, sexual orientation, or gender identity, as well as any other legally protected characteristics.
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This COC is a living document and, as such, is subject to ongoing review. DSC welcomes suggestions for amendments - and acknowledges the need for continual examination of our community's practices and standards.
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This COC is a living document and, as such, is subject to ongoing review. DSC welcomes suggestions for amendments --- and acknowledges the need for continual examination of our community's practices and standards.
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We believe that this COC is an opportunity for everyone to work towards a more collaborative, communicative, and empowering space. This means that everyone feels confident that they will not be exposed to emotional, cultural, or physical harm. Because the ways in which we come together as a community are broad, we must be extra vigilant about ensuring there is no space for problematic behavior to exist.
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{% include heading_block.html title="Purpose" %}
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This COC is intended to create and maintain a safe environment for everyone, and to encourage and enable anyone to raise legitimate concerns within the group prior to seeking resolution outside the organization. Consent is everything - we have a zero-tolerance policy for any breaches of consent.
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This COC is intended to create and maintain a safe environment for everyone, and to encourage and enable anyone to raise legitimate concerns within the group prior to seeking resolution outside the organization. Consent is everything --- we have a zero-tolerance policy for any breaches of consent.
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{% include heading_block.html title="Scope" %}
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Some general guidelines are:
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- Attendees should not be subject to negative commentary and/or stereotypes on: sexuality, gender identity, age, physical attributes or abilities, race, ethnicity, class, size, attractiveness, personality characteristics, or clothing.
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* Attendees should not be subject to negative commentary and/or stereotypes on: sexuality, gender identity, age, physical attributes or abilities, race, ethnicity, class, size, attractiveness, personality characteristics, or clothing.
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- Avoid being dismissive and rude.
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* Avoid being dismissive and rude.
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- Making assumptions about gender, sexuality, race, class, or religion of attendees is disrespectful.
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* Making assumptions about gender, sexuality, race, class, or religion of attendees is disrespectful.
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- Strive to use people's proper names, pronunciation, and pronouns.
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* Strive to use people's proper names, pronunciation, and pronouns.
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- Shaming or public outbursts are threatening and have absolutely no place at our events or within our community.
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* Shaming or public outbursts are threatening and have absolutely no place at our events or within our community.
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- We are literally getting under your skin; this intimacy is a lot more comfortable for both parties if personal hygiene is looked after.
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* We are literally getting under your skin; this intimacy is a lot more comfortable for both parties if personal hygiene is looked after.
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- Be polite to your fellow attendees.
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* Be polite to your fellow attendees.
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- Photographs are to only be taken with the prior consent of the person being photographed. Please notify volunteers if you do not wish your photo to be taken.
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* Photographs are to only be taken with the prior consent of the person being photographed. Please notify volunteers if you do not wish your photo to be taken.
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- At events, pay attention to your surroundings and what is going on around you.
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* At events, pay attention to your surroundings and what is going on around you.
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- Help us to maintain a tidy and clean venue.
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* Help us to maintain a tidy and clean venue.
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- Do not hesitate to inform volunteers or DSC organizers if you have suggestions or notice any violations of these rules.
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* Do not hesitate to inform volunteers or DSC organizers if you have suggestions or notice any violations of these rules.
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- DSC events are drug-free and alcohol-free spaces. Suspendees, facilitators, and volunteers are expected to remain sober, and we cannot safely or ethically suspend you if anyone involved is under the influence. The use, possession, or sale of alcohol or other drugs at events is prohibited.
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* DSC events are drug-free and alcohol-free spaces. Suspendees, facilitators, and volunteers are expected to remain sober, and we cannot safely or ethically suspend you if anyone involved is under the influence. The use, possession, or sale of alcohol or other drugs at events is prohibited.
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- There are sharp objects and potentially contaminated equipment around. Pay attention to what might be near you. If you are not a volunteer, or you are a volunteer but do not have a specific role, do not touch anything unless you are directed to do so. If in doubt, ask someone. Don't touch anything with blood on it, not even your own blood.
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* There are sharp objects and potentially contaminated equipment around. Pay attention to what might be near you. If you are not a volunteer, or you are a volunteer but do not have a specific role, do not touch anything unless you are directed to do so. If in doubt, ask someone. Don't touch anything with blood on it, not even your own blood.
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{% include heading_block.html title="Relationships and Power Dynamics Between Practitioners/Volunteers and Suspendees" %}
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Expectations for practitioners and volunteers involved in a suspension include:
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- Practitioners and volunteers directly involved in a person's suspension (including rigging, piercing, and aftercare) must **not initiate or accept** romantic or sexual advances from that suspendee during the suspension, during aftercare, or for at least three days after the suspension ends. This three-day period is an absolute minimum standard that DSC is willing to codify in this COC, recognizing that relationships and power dynamics are complex and that there will always be edge cases and exceptions.
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* Practitioners and volunteers directly involved in a person's suspension (including rigging, piercing, and aftercare) must **not initiate or accept** romantic or sexual advances from that suspendee during the suspension, during aftercare, or for at least three days after the suspension ends. This three-day period is an absolute minimum standard that DSC is willing to codify in this COC, recognizing that relationships and power dynamics are complex and that there will always be edge cases and exceptions.
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- In practice, we strongly encourage practitioners and volunteers to wait at least three months before pursuing any romantic or sexual relationship with a suspendee.
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* In practice, we strongly encourage practitioners and volunteers to wait at least three months before pursuing any romantic or sexual relationship with a suspendee.
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- If a suspendee expresses romantic or sexual interest during this period, practitioners and volunteers are expected to **deflect and delay**, rather than engage. For example, you might say: "I can't engage with that right now. You've just gone through an intense experience, and my role is to support your safety and well-being. If you still feel this way after you've had some time and space to process, we can revisit the conversation then."
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* If a suspendee expresses romantic or sexual interest during this period, practitioners and volunteers are expected to **deflect and delay**, rather than engage. For example, you might say: "I can't engage with that right now. You've just gone through an intense experience, and my role is to support your safety and well-being. If you still feel this way after you've had some time and space to process, we can revisit the conversation then."
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- After this three-day period, any potential romantic or sexual relationship should still be approached with care. Practitioners and volunteers should continue to examine the power dynamic, consider how comfortable the suspendee is with saying no, and think about whether the relationship is genuinely informed and freely chosen. If at any point you are unsure whether you are engaging in a relationship ethically or in a way that is consistent with this COC, you are expected to talk to a member of the Incident Resolution Team (IRT) or a senior community member before moving forward.
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* After this three-day period, any potential romantic or sexual relationship should still be approached with care. Practitioners and volunteers should continue to examine the power dynamic, consider how comfortable the suspendee is with saying no, and think about whether the relationship is genuinely informed and freely chosen. If at any point you are unsure whether you are engaging in a relationship ethically or in a way that is consistent with this COC, you are expected to talk to a member of the Incident Resolution Team (IRT) or a senior community member before moving forward.
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Existing romantic or sexual relationships between practitioners/volunteers and suspendees are generally exempt from the three-day prohibition on initiating or accepting a relationship. However, the same power-dynamic concerns still apply. Practitioners in existing relationships are encouraged to check in with their partners, to give them space to process intense suspensions, and to recognize that sometimes it may be more supportive for another practitioner to lead or assist with a suspension.
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Examples of harassment might include:
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- Verbal harassment -- jokes, comments, ridicule or songs
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* Verbal harassment --- jokes, comments, ridicule or songs
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- Written harassment -- texts, messages, social media posts, emails, letters and notices
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* Written harassment --- texts, messages, social media posts, emails, letters and notices
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- Physical harassment -- unnecessary touching, non-consensual touching or any form of assault
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* Physical harassment --- unnecessary touching, non-consensual touching or any form of assault
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{% include heading_block.html title="Sexual Harassment" %}
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Examples of sexual harassment include:
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* Unwelcome sexual gestures
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- Unwanted displays of sexually suggestive objects including images, text messages or emails
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- Unwelcome physical contact such as pinching and groping. Or more benign touching that is unnecessary or it has been communicated is unwanted.
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* Unwelcome physical contact such as pinching and groping. Or more benign touching that is unnecessary or it has been communicated is unwanted.
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By way of example only, a pattern of any of the following (non-exhaustive) types of conduct amount to bullying:
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- Sharing content about other attendees or community members online that is derogatory and/or shaming
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* Sharing content about other attendees or community members online that is derogatory and/or shaming
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- Shouting at other attendees or community members in public and/or private
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* Shouting at other attendees or community members in public and/or private
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* Unfair or unrealistic delegation of duties and responsibilities
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Bullying can have a physiological, psychological and behavioral impact on an individual. Victims can lose their self-esteem and self-confidence and are at increased risk of suffering stress-related conditions that can trigger further trauma.
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Apart from the direct impact on a victim's health, long-term exposure to bullying may also have consequences for the victim's opportunities, through absenteeism from events in order to avoid contact with the bully.
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Anyone who is asked to stop any harassing behavior should comply immediately. If you are being harassed, or witness inappropriate behavior, speak out about it. Seek support for yourself or offer support to the person harmed. If you feel comfortable to do so, call out the inappropriate behavior immediately. You might find it helpful to use this type of language: "That is not appropriate -- it makes me feel uncomfortable". Or you can raise it at a later time.
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Anyone who is asked to stop any harassing behavior should comply immediately. If you are being harassed, or witness inappropriate behavior, speak out about it. Seek support for yourself or offer support to the person harmed. If you feel comfortable to do so, call out the inappropriate behavior immediately. You might find it helpful to use this type of language: "That is not appropriate --- it makes me feel uncomfortable". Or you can raise it at a later time.
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The "bystander effect" is all too common - a culture of silence perpetuates harm. If the behavior is not rectified immediately, or if you do not feel comfortable addressing the perpetrator directly, feel free to fill in an incident report form, which can be obtained from event coordinators or completed online using our [Code of Conduct incident report form](https://forms.gle/nRUaXtrjPBijf3D59).
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The "bystander effect" is all too common --- a culture of silence perpetuates harm. If the behavior is not rectified immediately, or if you do not feel comfortable addressing the perpetrator directly, feel free to fill in an incident report form, which can be obtained from event coordinators or completed online using our [Code of Conduct incident report form](https://forms.gle/nRUaXtrjPBijf3D59).
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DSC maintains policies to deal with harassment (including sexual harassment), discrimination, bullying, and other misconduct at our events. If you experience or witness harassment, discrimination, bullying, or other misconduct in any event setting you have a right to speak up and, if appropriate, to make a formal complaint.
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If you decide to make a complaint then you can expect the following to happen:
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