I have been trying to figure out how to do this (trying tons of various options), but currently does not seem to be possible in Plots.
It would be useful to be able to resize the arrowheads in e.g. quiver plots. E.g. for
using Plots
xs = vcat([fill(i,10) for i in 1:10]...)
ys = vcat(fill(1:10,10)...)
dxs = (0.8 .- rand(100)) ./2
dys = (0.6 .- rand(100)) ./2
quiver(xs, ys; quiver=(dxs,dys))

Especially when the arrow lines are small, the arrowheads looks really weird and ugly.