Label their picks, not yours

createdBy has been stored on every date since the first commit and shown
nowhere, so a shared list gave no sense of who put what in it.

Only their picks are labelled. You already know what you added, so
marking your own would put a line on every card to say nothing — and the
card had one line too many before the redesign trimmed it. Asymmetric on
purpose: "their pick" is information, "your pick" is noise.

Costs no extra reads — it compares against the signed-in uid rather than
resolving a name.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

Author: Kjubikstronk

src/components/DateCard.tsx

@@ -61,6 +61,15 @@ function DateCard({
   const [memoryNote, setMemoryNote] = useState(mine?.note ?? '')
 
   const cancelled = item.status === 'cancelled'
+
+  /**
+   * Whose idea this was.
+   *
+   * Only ever shown for theirs. You already know what you added, so labelling
+   * your own picks would put a line on every card to say nothing — and the
+   * card had one line too many to begin with.
+   */
+  const theirPick = !!item.createdBy && item.createdBy !== me
   /** Flat in a list, raised while you're working on it. */
   const asRow = !!flat && mode === 'idle'
 
@@ -200,6 +209,12 @@ function DateCard({
             </span>
           )}
 
+          {theirPick && (
+            <span className="legend mt-1 block text-[var(--color-ink)]/60">
+              their pick
+            </span>
+          )}
+
           {item.scheduledFor && (hideDay ? item.time : true) && (
             <span
               className={

src/lib/preview.ts

@@ -86,7 +86,7 @@ export const SAMPLE_DATES: DateIdea[] = [
     cancelReason: null,
     memories: null,
     coupleId: PREVIEW_COUPLE,
-    createdBy: 'preview',
+    createdBy: 'them',
     createdAt: Date.now(),
   },
   {
@@ -109,7 +109,7 @@ export const SAMPLE_DATES: DateIdea[] = [
     cancelReason: null,
     memories: null,
     coupleId: PREVIEW_COUPLE,
-    createdBy: 'preview',
+    createdBy: 'them',
     createdAt: Date.now(),
   },
   {