ci: drive stable Docker/deploy builds off release publish (#4484)

## What

Switch the **Stable Docker images** and **Update Deployment tags**
workflows from the `push: tags` trigger to `release: published`.

## Why

Tagging and publishing the GitHub Release were decoupled. Tags were
pushed independently, so the release-drafter draft could sit unpublished
even though Docker images were already built:
- `v0.36.28` sat as a draft for 4 days (images built 06-15, published
06-19).
- `v0.36.29` was never published — images built 06-19, draft only
published manually on 06-23.

Triggering off `release: published` makes **publishing the draft the
single source of truth**: GitHub natively creates the `vX.Y.Z` tag at
the release's target commit, which fires both workflows.

## Notes

- `stable-docker.yml` needs no other change — `github.ref_name` resolves
to the tag name on both event types, so `SHA_SHORT: stable-${{
github.ref_name }}` still yields `stable-vX.Y.Z` and `actions/checkout`
checks out the tag automatically.
- `update-docker-compose-stable.yaml` keeps `workflow_dispatch`; its
`releases/latest` lookup returns the just-published release.
- **Behavior change:** bare `git push origin vX.Y.Z` no longer triggers
builds — you must publish a release.
- **GITHUB_TOKEN caveat:** `release: published` fires on human publishes
(the current flow). If release-drafter is later set to auto-publish via
the default `GITHUB_TOKEN`, that bot event would not trigger these
downstream workflows (GitHub's recursion guard).

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Co-authored-by: Claude Opus 4.8 <noreply@anthropic.com>

Author: dtunikov

.github/workflows/stable-docker.yml

@@ -1,9 +1,9 @@
 name: Stable Docker images
 
 on:
-  push:
-    tags:
-      - "v[0-9]+.[0-9]+.[0-9]+"
+  release:
+    types:
+      - published
 
 jobs:
   docker-build:
@@ -36,5 +36,5 @@ jobs:
           files: ./docker-bake.hcl
           push: true
         env:
-          SHA_SHORT: stable-${{ github.ref_name }}
+          SHA_SHORT: stable-${{ github.event.release.tag_name }}
           TAG: latest-stable

.github/workflows/update-docker-compose-stable.yaml

@@ -1,11 +1,9 @@
 name: Update Deployment tags (Docker Compose and Helm Charts)
 
 on:
-  workflow_dispatch:
-    inputs: {}
-  push:
-    tags:
-      - "v[0-9]+.[0-9]+.[0-9]+"
+  release:
+    types:
+      - published
 
 permissions:
   issues: write
@@ -25,10 +23,7 @@ jobs:
         env:
           GH_TOKEN: ${{ github.token }}
         run: |
-          latest_tag="$(gh api \
-            -H "Accept: application/vnd.github+json" \
-            -H "X-GitHub-Api-Version: 2022-11-28" \
-            /repos/${{ github.repository }}/releases/latest | jq -r '.tag_name')"
+          latest_tag="${{ github.event.release.tag_name }}"
           echo "latest_tag=${latest_tag}" >> "$GITHUB_OUTPUT"
   update-docker-compose-tag:
     runs-on: ubuntu-latest