[Windows] merge upstream fix `access violation (0xC0000005)` for `_scaled_mm_v2` `_grouped_mm` `_int_mm`

[Apophis3158]

This fix pytorch#179138 (pytorch@382011c) for

Exception Code: 0xC0000005
0x00007FFCEB240000, torch_hip.dll + 0x0 byte(s)
0x00007FFCED7FCDE7, torch_hip.dll + 0x25BCDE7 byte(s)
  at::cuda::_scaled_mm_v2() + 0x487 byte(s)
0x00007FFCF3BD30F1, torch_cpu.dll + 0x12B30F1 byte(s)
  at::_ops::_scaled_mm_v2::call() + 0x1AA1 byte(s)

should be merged into downstream pytorch.

Related:

• [Issue]: [Windows] torch._grouped_mm access violation (0xC0000005) in torch_hip.dll TheRock#4086

[schung-amd]

#3160