Upgrade to Netty 4.1.111.Final and switch to use grpc-netty-shaded (#4426)

### Motivation

[Netty 4.1.111.Final](https://netty.io/news/2024/06/11/4-1-111-Final.html) contains important fixes:
- netty/netty#14086
- netty/netty#14093

On the Pulsar side these address Broker stability when TLS with Bookkeeper V2 protocol is used between Broker and Bookies. The Bookkeeper client didn't contain a workaround for the Netty SslHandler "feature" like Pulsar did. That's why Bookkeeper client was impacted. Netty 4.1.111.Final will address those stability issues with the Bookkeeper client when using V2 protocol over TLS.

### Changes

- Upgrade Netty to 4.1.111.Final
- Switch to use grpc-netty-shaded instead of grpc-netty
  - grpc-java is not compatible with Netty 4.1.111.Final. [grpc-java supports only specific Netty versions](https://github.com/grpc/grpc-java/blob/master/SECURITY.md#netty). The solution is to use grpc-netty-shaded instead of grpc-netty dependency.
- Add module to shade jetcd-core partially so that it can work with grpc-netty-shaded. 
  - jetcd-core library and it's transient dependency vertx-grpc has a direct dependency on grpc-netty and it doesn't work with grpc-netty-shaded without this solution.
  - this solution avoids the need to shade grpc libraries completely which would cause a lot of duplication and increase build times.

Author: lhotari

bookkeeper-dist/src/main/resources/LICENSE-all.bin.txt

@@ -217,32 +217,32 @@ Apache Software License, Version 2.
 - lib/commons-io-commons-io-2.7.jar [8]
 - lib/commons-lang-commons-lang-2.6.jar [9]
 - lib/commons-logging-commons-logging-1.1.1.jar [10]
-- lib/io.netty-netty-buffer-4.1.108.Final.jar [11]
-- lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.108.Final.jar [11]
-- lib/io.netty-netty-codec-dns-4.1.108.Final.jar [11]
-- lib/io.netty-netty-codec-http-4.1.108.Final.jar [11]
-- lib/io.netty-netty-codec-http2-4.1.108.Final.jar [11]
-- lib/io.netty-netty-codec-socks-4.1.108.Final.jar [11]
-- lib/io.netty-netty-common-4.1.108.Final.jar [11]
-- lib/io.netty-netty-handler-4.1.108.Final.jar [11]
-- lib/io.netty-netty-handler-proxy-4.1.108.Final.jar [11]
-- lib/io.netty-netty-resolver-4.1.108.Final.jar [11]
-- lib/io.netty-netty-resolver-dns-4.1.108.Final.jar [11]
+- lib/io.netty-netty-buffer-4.1.111.Final.jar [11]
+- lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.111.Final.jar [11]
+- lib/io.netty-netty-codec-dns-4.1.111.Final.jar [11]
+- lib/io.netty-netty-codec-http-4.1.111.Final.jar [11]
+- lib/io.netty-netty-codec-http2-4.1.111.Final.jar [11]
+- lib/io.netty-netty-codec-socks-4.1.111.Final.jar [11]
+- lib/io.netty-netty-common-4.1.111.Final.jar [11]
+- lib/io.netty-netty-handler-4.1.111.Final.jar [11]
+- lib/io.netty-netty-handler-proxy-4.1.111.Final.jar [11]
+- lib/io.netty-netty-resolver-4.1.111.Final.jar [11]
+- lib/io.netty-netty-resolver-dns-4.1.111.Final.jar [11]
 - lib/io.netty-netty-tcnative-boringssl-static-2.0.65.Final.jar [11]
 - lib/io.netty-netty-tcnative-boringssl-static-2.0.65.Final-linux-aarch_64.jar [11]
 - lib/io.netty-netty-tcnative-boringssl-static-2.0.65.Final-linux-x86_64.jar [11]
 - lib/io.netty-netty-tcnative-boringssl-static-2.0.65.Final-osx-aarch_64.jar [11]
 - lib/io.netty-netty-tcnative-boringssl-static-2.0.65.Final-osx-x86_64.jar [11]
 - lib/io.netty-netty-tcnative-boringssl-static-2.0.65.Final-windows-x86_64.jar [11]
 - lib/io.netty-netty-tcnative-classes-2.0.65.Final.jar [11]
-- lib/io.netty-netty-transport-4.1.108.Final.jar [11]
-- lib/io.netty-netty-transport-classes-epoll-4.1.108.Final.jar [11]
-- lib/io.netty-netty-transport-native-epoll-4.1.108.Final-linux-aarch_64.jar [11]
-- lib/io.netty-netty-transport-native-epoll-4.1.108.Final-linux-x86_64.jar [11]
+- lib/io.netty-netty-transport-4.1.111.Final.jar [11]
+- lib/io.netty-netty-transport-classes-epoll-4.1.111.Final.jar [11]
+- lib/io.netty-netty-transport-native-epoll-4.1.111.Final-linux-aarch_64.jar [11]
+- lib/io.netty-netty-transport-native-epoll-4.1.111.Final-linux-x86_64.jar [11]
 - lib/io.netty.incubator-netty-incubator-transport-native-io_uring-0.0.25.Final-linux-x86_64.jar [11]
 - lib/io.netty.incubator-netty-incubator-transport-native-io_uring-0.0.25.Final-linux-aarch_64.jar [11]
 - lib/io.netty.incubator-netty-incubator-transport-classes-io_uring-0.0.25.Final.jar [11]
-- lib/io.netty-netty-transport-native-unix-common-4.1.108.Final.jar [11]
+- lib/io.netty-netty-transport-native-unix-common-4.1.111.Final.jar [11]
 - lib/io.prometheus-simpleclient-0.15.0.jar [12]
 - lib/io.prometheus-simpleclient_common-0.15.0.jar [12]
 - lib/io.prometheus-simpleclient_hotspot-0.15.0.jar [12]
@@ -290,7 +290,7 @@ Apache Software License, Version 2.
 - lib/io.grpc-grpc-grpclb-1.64.0.jar [33]
 - lib/io.grpc-grpc-inprocess-1.64.0.jar [33]
 - lib/io.grpc-grpc-opentelemetry-1.64.0.jar [33]
-- lib/io.grpc-grpc-netty-1.64.0.jar [33]
+- lib/io.grpc-grpc-netty-shaded-1.64.0.jar [33]
 - lib/io.grpc-grpc-protobuf-1.64.0.jar [33]
 - lib/io.grpc-grpc-protobuf-lite-1.64.0.jar [33]
 - lib/io.grpc-grpc-services-1.64.0.jar [33]
@@ -364,7 +364,7 @@ Apache Software License, Version 2.
 [8] Source available at https://github.com/apache/commons-io/tree/rel/commons-io-2.7
 [9] Source available at https://github.com/apache/commons-lang/tree/LANG_2_6
 [10] Source available at https://github.com/apache/commons-logging/tree/commons-logging-1.1.1
-[11] Source available at https://github.com/netty/netty/tree/netty-4.1.108.Final
+[11] Source available at https://github.com/netty/netty/tree/netty-4.1.111.Final
 [12] Source available at https://github.com/prometheus/client_java/tree/parent-0.15.0
 [13] Source available at https://github.com/vert-x3/vertx-auth/tree/4.3.2
 [14] Source available at https://github.com/vert-x3/vertx-bridge-common/tree/4.3.2
@@ -408,9 +408,9 @@ Apache Software License, Version 2.
 [57] Source available at https://github.com/LMAX-Exchange/disruptor/releases/tag/4.0.0
 
 ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
-lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.108.Final.jar bundles some 3rd party dependencies
+lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.111.Final.jar bundles some 3rd party dependencies
 
-lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.108.Final.jar contains the extensions to Java Collections Framework which has
+lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.111.Final.jar contains the extensions to Java Collections Framework which has
 been derived from the works by JSR-166 EG, Doug Lea, and Jason T. Greene:
 
   * LICENSE:
@@ -419,31 +419,31 @@ been derived from the works by JSR-166 EG, Doug Lea, and Jason T. Greene:
     * http://gee.cs.oswego.edu/cgi-bin/viewcvs.cgi/jsr166/
     * http://viewvc.jboss.org/cgi-bin/viewvc.cgi/jbosscache/experimental/jsr166/
 
-lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.108.Final.jar contains a modified version of Robert Harder's Public Domain
+lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.111.Final.jar contains a modified version of Robert Harder's Public Domain
 Base64 Encoder and Decoder, which can be obtained at:
 
   * LICENSE:
     * deps/netty/LICENSE.base64.txt (Public Domain)
   * HOMEPAGE:
     * http://iharder.sourceforge.net/current/java/base64/
 
-lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.108.Final.jar contains a modified portion of 'Webbit', an event based
+lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.111.Final.jar contains a modified portion of 'Webbit', an event based
 WebSocket and HTTP server, which can be obtained at:
 
   * LICENSE:
     * deps/netty/LICENSE.webbit.txt (BSD License)
   * HOMEPAGE:
     * https://github.com/joewalnes/webbit
 
-lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.108.Final.jar contains a modified portion of 'SLF4J', a simple logging
+lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.111.Final.jar contains a modified portion of 'SLF4J', a simple logging
 facade for Java, which can be obtained at:
 
   * LICENSE:
     * deps/netty/LICENSE.slf4j.txt (MIT License)
   * HOMEPAGE:
     * http://www.slf4j.org/
 
-lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.108.Final.jar contains a modified portion of 'Apache Harmony', an open source
+lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.111.Final.jar contains a modified portion of 'Apache Harmony', an open source
 Java SE, which can be obtained at:
 
   * NOTICE:
@@ -453,15 +453,15 @@ Java SE, which can be obtained at:
   * HOMEPAGE:
     * http://archive.apache.org/dist/harmony/
 
-lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.108.Final.jar contains a modified portion of 'jbzip2', a Java bzip2 compression
+lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.111.Final.jar contains a modified portion of 'jbzip2', a Java bzip2 compression
 and decompression library written by Matthew J. Francis. It can be obtained at:
 
   * LICENSE:
     * deps/netty/LICENSE.jbzip2.txt (MIT License)
   * HOMEPAGE:
     * https://code.google.com/p/jbzip2/
 
-lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.108.Final.jar contains a modified portion of 'libdivsufsort', a C API library to construct
+lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.111.Final.jar contains a modified portion of 'libdivsufsort', a C API library to construct
 the suffix array and the Burrows-Wheeler transformed string for any input string of
 a constant-size alphabet written by Yuta Mori. It can be obtained at:
 
@@ -470,63 +470,63 @@ a constant-size alphabet written by Yuta Mori. It can be obtained at:
   * HOMEPAGE:
     * https://github.com/y-256/libdivsufsort
 
-lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.108.Final.jar contains a modified portion of Nitsan Wakart's 'JCTools',
+lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.111.Final.jar contains a modified portion of Nitsan Wakart's 'JCTools',
 Java Concurrency Tools for the JVM, which can be obtained at:
 
   * LICENSE:
     * deps/netty/LICENSE.jctools.txt (ASL2 License)
   * HOMEPAGE:
     * https://github.com/JCTools/JCTools
 
-lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.108.Final.jar optionally depends on 'JZlib', a re-implementation of zlib in
+lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.111.Final.jar optionally depends on 'JZlib', a re-implementation of zlib in
 pure Java, which can be obtained at:
 
   * LICENSE:
     * deps/netty/LICENSE.jzlib.txt (BSD style License)
   * HOMEPAGE:
     * http://www.jcraft.com/jzlib/
 
-lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.108.Final.jar optionally depends on 'Compress-LZF', a Java library for encoding and
+lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.111.Final.jar optionally depends on 'Compress-LZF', a Java library for encoding and
 decoding data in LZF format, written by Tatu Saloranta. It can be obtained at:
 
   * LICENSE:
     * deps/netty/LICENSE.compress-lzf.txt (Apache License 2.0)
   * HOMEPAGE:
     * https://github.com/ning/compress
 
-lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.108.Final.jar optionally depends on 'lz4', a LZ4 Java compression
+lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.111.Final.jar optionally depends on 'lz4', a LZ4 Java compression
 and decompression library written by Adrien Grand. It can be obtained at:
 
   * LICENSE:
     * deps/netty/LICENSE.lz4.txt (Apache License 2.0)
   * HOMEPAGE:
     * https://github.com/jpountz/lz4-java
 
-lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.108.Final.jar optionally depends on 'lzma-java', a LZMA Java compression
+lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.111.Final.jar optionally depends on 'lzma-java', a LZMA Java compression
 and decompression library, which can be obtained at:
 
   * LICENSE:
     * deps/netty/LICENSE.lzma-java.txt (Apache License 2.0)
   * HOMEPAGE:
     * https://github.com/jponge/lzma-java
 
-lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.108.Final.jar contains a modified portion of 'jfastlz', a Java port of FastLZ compression
+lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.111.Final.jar contains a modified portion of 'jfastlz', a Java port of FastLZ compression
 and decompression library written by William Kinney. It can be obtained at:
 
   * LICENSE:
     * deps/netty/LICENSE.jfastlz.txt (MIT License)
   * HOMEPAGE:
     * https://code.google.com/p/jfastlz/
 
-lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.108.Final.jar contains a modified portion of and optionally depends on 'Protocol Buffers',
+lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.111.Final.jar contains a modified portion of and optionally depends on 'Protocol Buffers',
 Google's data interchange format, which can be obtained at:
 
   * LICENSE:
     * deps/netty/LICENSE.protobuf.txt (New BSD License)
   * HOMEPAGE:
     * https://github.com/google/protobuf
 
-lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.108.Final.jar optionally depends on 'Bouncy Castle Crypto APIs' to generate
+lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.111.Final.jar optionally depends on 'Bouncy Castle Crypto APIs' to generate
 a temporary self-signed X.509 certificate when the JVM does not provide the
 equivalent functionality.  It can be obtained at:
 
@@ -535,79 +535,79 @@ equivalent functionality.  It can be obtained at:
   * HOMEPAGE:
     * http://www.bouncycastle.org/
 
-lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.108.Final.jar optionally depends on 'Snappy', a compression library produced
+lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.111.Final.jar optionally depends on 'Snappy', a compression library produced
 by Google Inc, which can be obtained at:
 
   * LICENSE:
     * deps/netty/LICENSE.snappy.txt (New BSD License)
   * HOMEPAGE:
     * https://github.com/google/snappy
 
-lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.108.Final.jar optionally depends on 'JBoss Marshalling', an alternative Java
+lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.111.Final.jar optionally depends on 'JBoss Marshalling', an alternative Java
 serialization API, which can be obtained at:
 
   * LICENSE:
     * deps/netty/LICENSE.jboss-marshalling.txt (Apache License 2.0)
   * HOMEPAGE:
     * https://github.com/jboss-remoting/jboss-marshalling
 
-lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.108.Final.jar optionally depends on 'Caliper', Google's micro-
+lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.111.Final.jar optionally depends on 'Caliper', Google's micro-
 benchmarking framework, which can be obtained at:
 
   * LICENSE:
     * deps/netty/LICENSE.caliper.txt (Apache License 2.0)
   * HOMEPAGE:
     * https://github.com/google/caliper
 
-lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.108.Final.jar optionally depends on 'Apache Commons Logging', a logging
+lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.111.Final.jar optionally depends on 'Apache Commons Logging', a logging
 framework, which can be obtained at:
 
   * LICENSE:
     * deps/netty/LICENSE.commons-logging.txt (Apache License 2.0)
   * HOMEPAGE:
     * http://commons.apache.org/logging/
 
-lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.108.Final.jar optionally depends on 'Apache Log4J', a logging framework, which
+lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.111.Final.jar optionally depends on 'Apache Log4J', a logging framework, which
 can be obtained at:
 
   * LICENSE:
     * deps/netty/LICENSE.log4j.txt (Apache License 2.0)
   * HOMEPAGE:
     * http://logging.apache.org/log4j/
 
-lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.108.Final.jar optionally depends on 'Aalto XML', an ultra-high performance
+lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.111.Final.jar optionally depends on 'Aalto XML', an ultra-high performance
 non-blocking XML processor, which can be obtained at:
 
   * LICENSE:
     * deps/netty/LICENSE.aalto-xml.txt (Apache License 2.0)
   * HOMEPAGE:
     * http://wiki.fasterxml.com/AaltoHome
 
-lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.108.Final.jar contains a modified version of 'HPACK', a Java implementation of
+lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.111.Final.jar contains a modified version of 'HPACK', a Java implementation of
 the HTTP/2 HPACK algorithm written by Twitter. It can be obtained at:
 
   * LICENSE:
     * deps/netty/LICENSE.hpack.txt (Apache License 2.0)
   * HOMEPAGE:
     * https://github.com/twitter/hpack
 
-lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.108.Final.jar contains a modified version of 'HPACK', a Java implementation of
+lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.111.Final.jar contains a modified version of 'HPACK', a Java implementation of
 the HTTP/2 HPACK algorithm written by Cory Benfield. It can be obtained at:
 
   * LICENSE:
     * deps/netty/LICENSE.hyper-hpack.txt (MIT License)
   * HOMEPAGE:
     * https://github.com/python-hyper/hpack/
 
-lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.108.Final.jar contains a modified version of 'HPACK', a Java implementation of
+lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.111.Final.jar contains a modified version of 'HPACK', a Java implementation of
 the HTTP/2 HPACK algorithm written by Tatsuhiro Tsujikawa. It can be obtained at:
 
   * LICENSE:
     * deps/netty/LICENSE.nghttp2-hpack.txt (MIT License)
   * HOMEPAGE:
     * https://github.com/nghttp2/nghttp2/
 
-lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.108.Final.jar contains a modified portion of 'Apache Commons Lang', a Java library
+lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.111.Final.jar contains a modified portion of 'Apache Commons Lang', a Java library
 provides utilities for the java.lang API, which can be obtained at:
 
   * LICENSE:
@@ -616,15 +616,15 @@ provides utilities for the java.lang API, which can be obtained at:
     * https://commons.apache.org/proper/commons-lang/
 
 
-lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.108.Final.jar contains the Maven wrapper scripts from 'Maven Wrapper',
+lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.111.Final.jar contains the Maven wrapper scripts from 'Maven Wrapper',
 that provides an easy way to ensure a user has everything necessary to run the Maven build.
 
   * LICENSE:
     * deps/netty/LICENSE.mvn-wrapper.txt (Apache License 2.0)
   * HOMEPAGE:
     * https://github.com/takari/maven-wrapper
 
-lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.108.Final.jar contains the dnsinfo.h header file,
+lib/io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.111.Final.jar contains the dnsinfo.h header file,
 that provides a way to retrieve the system DNS configuration on MacOS.
 This private header is also used by Apple's open source
  mDNSResponder (https://opensource.apple.com/tarballs/mDNSResponder/).