provide an option to exit `kamel debug xxx` when debugger is attached

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When usign the kamel debug xxx, the process stay alive until the debugger is detached. To allow reuse with built-in fuinctionalities in VS Code (and increase the numbe rof possibilities for advanced VS Code users), it would be convenient to have a n ooption that will end the process when the debugger is attached. it will allow VS Code to automatically detect that ti is ready and attach a Java debugger (using some defaults configurations).

I think that a kamel debug disconnect xxx shoudl be provided at teh same time.

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[apupier]

still relevant

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still an important feature for Debugging experience