Python 3.12 compatibility: distutils removal and setuptools dependency

[abilun]

The issue:

ccm relies on distutils in parts of the codebase, which can break on Python 3.12.
distutils is no longer available in stdlib on Python 3.12
Additionally, ccm does not declare setuptools as a dependency, so setuptools is not guaranteed to be available, which can lead to failtures.

Proposed direction:
Make sure that setuptools is listed as a dependency or replace the functionality provided by the distutils package.

Traceback:
../../../../.local/share/uv/python/cpython-3.12.12-macos-aarch64-none/lib/python3.12/importlib/__init__.py:90: in import_module
    return _bootstrap._gcd_import(name[level:], package, level)
           ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
tests/integration/test_cluster.py:3: in <module>
    from ccm import launch_cassandra_cluster
tests/integration/ccm.py:1: in <module>
    import ccmlib.cluster
.venv/lib/python3.12/site-packages/ccmlib/cluster.py:18: in <module>
    from ccmlib import common, extension, repository
.venv/lib/python3.12/site-packages/ccmlib/common.py:20: in <module>
    from distutils.version import LooseVersion  #pylint: disable=import-error, no-name-in-module
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
E   ModuleNotFoundError: No module named 'distutils'

CCM version: 3.1.5
Python: cpython-3.12.12