[Feature][Standalone] Support using JDBC registry plugin in standalone mode.

[ruanwenjun]

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Description

We only support use zk as registry center, it's need to support jdbc as registry center.

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[qifanlili]

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[ruanwenjun]

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Assigned to you, you can begin this from StandaloneServer