fix duplicating(&learning) problem

[foreverneverer]

duplicating exist some bug, this issue mark the problem:

• fix duplicating&learning(1/n): The server crash when balance with duplication #693

• fix duplicating&learning(2/n): plog may be lost on going duplicating when replica re-open and then learn #740
  fix(duplication): plog may be lost on going duplicating when replica re-open and then learn XiaoMi/rdsn#838

• fix duplicating&learning(3/n): plog will be lost if decree is step back case when duplicating #765
  fix(duplication): implement reset_from to fix plog loss when duplicating with learning XiaoMi/rdsn#845

• fix duplicating&learning(4/n): plog in /learn path of learning may be lost at start copy plog process when duplicating #764

• fix duplicating&learning(5/n): the plog will be gc before comfirmed #767

• fix duplicating&learning(6/n): unknown core dump when loop restart #770

• fix duplicating&learning(7/n): plog won't be delete after remove duplication #783
  fix(duplication): reset confirmed_decree to delete secondary private log after remove duplication XiaoMi/rdsn#860

• fix duplicating&learning(8/n): last_commit_decreee can't be updated to within the scope of replay log(start~end) #784
  fix(duplication): force wait confirmed_decree sync complete when start duplication XiaoMi/rdsn#861

• feat(duplication): derror and add perf-counter if mutation loss instead of dassert for duplication XiaoMi/rdsn#862

[acelyc111]

• feat(dup): parameterize the period seconds of duplication sync #1639