chore: Set reuseAddr/port in temporaryServerAddresses #4251

Job	Run time
Pekko Classic Remoting Tests (cluster/test distributed-data/test cluster-tools/test cluster-metri...	9m 51s
Check / Code Style	1m 45s
Java 21 Extra Tests (including all tests that need Java 9+)	3m 16s
Check / Tests	26m 9s
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