introduce max number of streams #2231

Job	Run time
windows	4m 26s
linux-shared-libs	4m 25s
macos-x64	3m 9s
byo-crypto	2m 40s
clang-sanitizers (,thread)	4m 39s
clang-sanitizers (,address,undefined)	4m 48s
downstream	41m 27s
windows-shared-libs	4m 2s
localhost-test-macos (kqueue)	4m 43s
localhost-test-macos (dispatch_queue)	7m 54s
linux-compat (manylinux1-x64)	3m 46s
macos (dispatch_queue)	5m 47s
localhost-test-linux	7m 42s
windows-app-verifier	7m 46s
macos (kqueue)	2m 33s
linux-compat (manylinux1-x86)	4m 46s
linux-compat (manylinux2014-x86)	4m 41s
linux-compat (opensuse-leap)	4m 59s
linux-compat (rhel8-x64)	4m 8s
linux-compat (al2-x64)	12m 6s
windows-vc17 (x64)	4m 1s
windows-vc17 (x86)	4m 17s
linux-compat (fedora-34-x64)	3m 37s
localhost-test-win	7m 21s
linux-compiler-compat (clang-6)	6m 48s
linux-compiler-compat (clang-10)	4m 55s
linux-compat (manylinux2014-x64)	4m 7s
linux-compiler-compat (clang-9)	13m 7s
linux-compiler-compat (clang-15)	4m 50s
linux-compiler-compat (gcc-13, --cmake-extra=-DCMAKE_EXE_LINKER_FLAGS="-lresolv")	8m 48s
linux-compiler-compat (clang-8)	7m 24s
linux-compiler-compat (gcc-4.8)	3m 45s
linux-compiler-compat (gcc-7)	4m 26s
linux-compiler-compat (clang-17)	6m 26s
linux-compiler-compat (gcc-11)	5m 44s
linux-compiler-compat (clang-11)	4m 40s
linux-compiler-compat (gcc-8)	5m 0s
linux-compiler-compat (gcc-6)	4m 19s
linux-compiler-compat (gcc-5)	4m 15s
	4h 8m 17s

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