Fancy middlewares

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Right now middlewares are either:

1. A function
2. An object with a middlewareCall symbol function

I think it would be very helpful if the object middlewares have a few more features:

• The ability to clean up when the server is shutting down. See Process remains running after server close #160
• The ability to indicate if they should be called before or after a different middleware. This is helpful because a lot of middlewares are dependent on each other, which means that a very strict order is needed. Middlewares have no good way to complain if for example the 'bodyparser' middleware was not loaded and it needs a parsed body.