Add `with_interit_option` and `with_set_option` fields to `postgresql_grant_role` resource

[dhermes]

I am happy to do this implementation / tests / docs, just want to make sure you are OK with these being added @cyrilgdn.

These correspond to the admin_option, inherit_option, set_option columns in pg_catalog.pg_auth_members: https://www.postgresql.org/docs/17/catalog-pg-auth-members.html

These were not added until PostgreSQL 16:

• https://www.postgresql.org/docs/15/catalog-pg-auth-members.html
• https://www.postgresql.org/docs/16/catalog-pg-auth-members.html

Now the syntax is:

GRANT foo TO bar WITH ADMIN FALSE, INHERIT FALSE, SET TRUE;
-- WAS: GRANT foo TO bar WITH ADMIN FALSE;