fix: DH-18798 - token cache growing unbounded (#2374) (#2377)

Cherry pick back to vplus

This adds a cache for the token cache. I tested this was actually
causing the issue by adding some code to the cell renderer to prefill
the cache to 1 million items. It hung around 200k without the max. With
max it prefills just fine (cleaning out every 10k) and doesn't hinder
performance.

Author: mattrunyon

packages/grid/src/GridModel.ts

@@ -225,7 +225,8 @@ abstract class GridModel<
       const contentToCheckForLinks = text.substring(0, lengthOfContent);
 
       return GridUtils.findTokensWithProtocolInText(contentToCheckForLinks);
-    }
+    },
+    { max: 10000 }
   );
 
   renderTypeForCell(column: ModelIndex, row: ModelIndex): CellRenderType {