[ApiDiff] Change the default attributes to exclude to the ones we use for ref file generation

[carlossanlop]

From #46425 (comment)

Use these as the default attributes to exclude, as they are the default ones that we already use for when we generate the ref files: https://github.com/dotnet/runtime/blob/main/eng/DefaultGenApiDocIds.txt

[dotnet-policy-service]

@dotnet/area-infrastructure-libraries a new issue has been filed in the ApiCompat area, please triage