cherry-pick deepmodeling#6233: Resolve MPI communication issue (R coordinate mismatch problem during sparse matrix generation) (deepmodeling#6555)

* Fixed the bug in memory statistics

* Fix: MPI communication errors due to inconsistent R-coordinates in sparse matrix generation​ (deepmodeling#6233)

* Fix MPI_ERR_TRUNCATE error

* Add MPI compilation macro

* Temp debug info print

* Move sync operation into get_R_range

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Co-authored-by: Taoni Bao <baotaoni@pku.edu.cn>

Author: zgn-26714