enhance `cuda_sanity_ignore_files` to also allow file patterns

[boegel]

see https://github.com/easybuilders/easybuild-framework/pull/4692/files#r2036929976

We should also support cases like:

cuda_sanity_ignore_files = ['lib/*.so']

[Flamefire]

When this is addressed: I added a few remarks for minor things to #4692 that could be changed while touching the file: