Unable to set rpath of python library when building from source

[jpapadakis]

Checklist

• I have searched for similar issues.
• For Python issues, I have tested with the latest development wheel.
• I have checked the release documentation and the latest documentation (for master branch).

Steps to reproduce the issue

Build from source with one of the non-header only 3rd party libs installed in a non-standard location while activating the USE_SYSTEM_XXX flag. The prefix location of the system 3rd party lib is provided to cmake via CMAKE_PREFIX_PATH, desired rpath is provided via CMAKE_INSTALL_RPATH, and the library is located by cmake at configure time. In my case use JSONCPP as an example.

Make install-pip-package target.

Error message

Upon importing open3d in python:

    undefined symbol: <...>

readelf shows desired rpath provided by CMAKE_INSTALL_RPATH is not reflected in the lib RUNPATH.

Open3D, Python and System information

- Operating system: Ubuntu 20.04
- Python version: Python 3.9
- Open3D version: 0.15.1
- System architecture: x86
- Is this a remote workstation?: no
- How did you install Open3D?: build from source
- Compiler version (if built from source): gcc 9.4

Additional information

Build process of python lib does not appear to respect CMAKE_INSTALL_RPATH provided by user. This does not appear to be an issue when using system versions of header only 3rd party libs (e.g. Eigen, pybind11, etc.).