Migrate to CAPI 1.9

/kind feature

**Describe the solution you'd like**

Migrate CAPC to CAPI 1.9 to support latest k8s releases (1.32, 1.31...)


**Anything else you would like to add:**

References:
https://cluster-api.sigs.k8s.io/reference/versions.html
https://github.com/kubernetes-sigs/cluster-api/releases