[Enhancement]: mo的yaml文件里所有的变量取值都有规范

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https://docs.matrixorigin.cn/dev/MatrixOne/Deploy/deploy-MatrixOne-cluster/

所有的取值都得是
consist of lower case alphanumeric characters, '-' or '.', and must start and end with an alphanumeric character
必须包含小写字母、横杠（-）或小数点（.），且必须以字母或数字开始和结尾

如果没遵守的话kubectl apply的时候不会生效。