Add support for CUDA architecture family codes #9717

Job	Run time
precheck	1m 44s
wasm_Debug / build-wasm	54m 4s
wasm_Release_static_library / build-wasm	7m 44s
wasm_Release / build-wasm	51m 2s
web_Release / build_onnxruntime_web	23m 25s
web_Debug / build_onnxruntime_web	18m 35s
	2h 36m 34s

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