Enable C++20 for more builds #9894

Job	Run time
precheck	1m 45s
wasm_Release_static_library / build-wasm	8m 5s
wasm_Debug / build-wasm	56m 36s
wasm_Release / build-wasm	53m 17s
web_Release / build_onnxruntime_web	22m 25s
web_Debug / build_onnxruntime_web	19m 22s
	2h 41m 30s

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