[data grid] Pivoting follow-up items

[MBilalShafi]

Follow-up items extracted from #9877

• Make pivoting panel and sidebar components composable
• Performance improvements (slow on 10k rows)
• Optimize the sidebar for smaller viewports
• Add support for column visibility during pivot [DataGridPremium] Pivoting #9877 (comment)
• Filtering in pivot mode should filter out column groups that do not pass the filters – [DataGridPremium] Pivoting #9877 (comment)
• Show - in column headers without a label
• Fix sticky column groups not always visible and jumping: [DataGridPremium] Pivoting #9877 (comment)
• Make sticky column groups the default behavior
• Keep the resized width on panel toggle
• Allow hiding footer aggregation [DataGridPremium] Pivoting #9877 (comment)