DSMR update so it works with esp_idf

[snelweg]

Component name

DSMR

Link to component documentation on our website

https://esphome.io/components/sensor/dsmr/

Describe the enhancement

Would be nice to be able to switch to the ESP_IDF library instead of the Arduino one.
Unfortunately the UART blocks using the modern library.
The speed increase with compiling when using the ESP lib would be very welcome.

Use cases

Wherever the DSMR component is needed

Anything else?

related esphome/issues#3982

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