diff --git a/doc/whatsnew/fragments/10373.bugfix b/doc/whatsnew/fragments/10373.bugfix
new file mode 100644
index 0000000000..d7ba3a1893
--- /dev/null
+++ b/doc/whatsnew/fragments/10373.bugfix
@@ -0,0 +1,3 @@
+Fix a bug in Pyreverse where aggregations and associations were included in diagrams regardless of the selected --filter-mode (such as PUB_ONLY, ALL, etc.).
+
+Closes #10373
diff --git a/pylint/pyreverse/diagrams.py b/pylint/pyreverse/diagrams.py
index 6db0563003..a4fb8ce130 100644
--- a/pylint/pyreverse/diagrams.py
+++ b/pylint/pyreverse/diagrams.py
@@ -237,6 +237,9 @@ def extract_relationships(self) -> None:
             # associations & aggregations links
             for name, values in list(node.aggregations_type.items()):
                 for value in values:
+                    if not self.show_attr(name):
+                        continue
+
                     self.assign_association_relationship(
                         value, obj, name, "aggregation"
                     )
@@ -249,6 +252,9 @@ def extract_relationships(self) -> None:
 
             for name, values in associations.items():
                 for value in values:
+                    if not self.show_attr(name):
+                        continue
+
                     self.assign_association_relationship(
                         value, obj, name, "association"
                     )
diff --git a/tests/pyreverse/functional/class_diagrams/aggregation/test_aggregation_filtering.mmd b/tests/pyreverse/functional/class_diagrams/aggregation/test_aggregation_filtering.mmd
new file mode 100644
index 0000000000..7dc9f77d98
--- /dev/null
+++ b/tests/pyreverse/functional/class_diagrams/aggregation/test_aggregation_filtering.mmd
@@ -0,0 +1,9 @@
+classDiagram
+  class A {
+    x
+  }
+  class B {
+  }
+  class P {
+  }
+  P --* A : x
diff --git a/tests/pyreverse/functional/class_diagrams/aggregation/test_aggregation_filtering.py b/tests/pyreverse/functional/class_diagrams/aggregation/test_aggregation_filtering.py
new file mode 100644
index 0000000000..8c87070f33
--- /dev/null
+++ b/tests/pyreverse/functional/class_diagrams/aggregation/test_aggregation_filtering.py
@@ -0,0 +1,10 @@
+# Test for https://github.com/pylint-dev/pylint/issues/10373
+
+class P:
+    pass
+
+class A:
+    x: P = P()
+
+class B:
+    __x: P = P()