change FA3 package matching to not promote test wheels (#7754)

as title, match on "flash_attn_3-" instead of "flash_attn_3"

Author: liangel-02

.github/workflows/release-download-pytorch-org.yml

@@ -85,5 +85,11 @@ jobs:
             # Run promotion
             # shellcheck disable=SC2086
             version="${PACKAGE^^}_VERSION"
+
+            # do not upload FA3 test wheels with local date suffix
+            if [[ "${PACKAGE}" == "flash_attn_3" ]]; then
+              export PACKAGE_INCLUDE_SUFFIX="-*"
+            fi
+
             # shellcheck disable=SC2086
             promote_s3 ${PACKAGE} whl "${!version}"

release/promote/common_utils.sh

@@ -52,7 +52,7 @@ aws_promote() {
             --recursive \
             --metadata-directive COPY \
             --exclude '*' \
-            --include "*${package_name}-${pytorch_version}*" \
+            --include "*${package_name}-${pytorch_version}${PACKAGE_INCLUDE_SUFFIX:-*}" \
             "${PYTORCH_S3_FROM/\/$//}" \
             "${PYTORCH_S3_TO/\/$//}"
     )