[ENH] Identify opportunities for making properties cached in cuDF

[shwina]

Wherever possible, cache properties using cached_property to avoid computing them every time they are needed.

[shwina]

We should also update the code to use functools.cached_property rather than our own implementation for Python >= 3.8. @rgsl888prabhu

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