Figure out how to implement performant context menu in cards

[rtman]

Description

Currently the context menus in cards are disabled (code is still there but commented) because they cause a noticeable performance hit when enabled. These are super useful so we should figure out a way to include them that doesn't slow down performance. We could add a three do button to the play onmouse enter overlay

[rtman]

could potentially use recoil for this, or lazy load the context menu to when the click happens.