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Add configurable Arrow memory limit - `withArrowMemoryLimitMB` #81

Job	Run time
Build and test windows-latest	2m 32s
Build and test ubuntu-latest	1m 50s
Build and test macos-latest	1m 12s
build (17, microsoft)	1m 23s
build (11, microsoft)	56s
build (22, oracle)	1m 14s
build (17, oracle)	1m 27s
build (21, oracle)	1m 39s
build (21, microsoft)	1m 30s
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