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Add configurable Arrow memory limit - `withArrowMemoryLimitMB` #88

Job	Run time
Build and test ubuntu-latest	1m 27s
Build and test macos-latest	1m 2s
build (21, microsoft)	1m 26s
build (11, microsoft)	1m 23s
build (21, oracle)	1m 24s
build (17, microsoft)	1m 31s
build (22, oracle)	1m 29s
Build and test windows-latest	3m 14s
build (17, oracle)	1m 20s
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