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Add configurable Arrow memory limit - `withArrowMemoryLimitMB` (#32) #100

Job	Run time
Build and test ubuntu-latest	1m 32s
Build and test windows-latest	7m 9s
Build and test macos-latest	1m 34s
build (21, oracle)	1m 32s
build (11, microsoft)	1m 26s
build (17, microsoft)	1m 30s
build (22, oracle)	1m 15s
build (21, microsoft)	1m 29s
build (17, oracle)	1m 14s
	18m 41s

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