Add --no-dev flag to skip dev-dependencies #2865

Job	Run time
check-up-to-dateness	5s
test (macos-latest, tame-index)	15m 22s
test (windows-latest, tame-index)	17m 28s
test (windows-latest, crates-index)	17m 16s
test (ubuntu-latest, crates-index)	30m 19s
test (ubuntu-latest, tame-index)	32m 17s
test (macos-latest, crates-index)	14m 59s
all-checks	4s
	2h 7m 50s

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