fix: prevent redials to the peer with mismatched shards

[danisharora099]

Problem

#1965 seems to suggest that js-waku currently keeps redialing peers, even after there has been a mismatch of shards/metadata protocol

Proposed Solutions

Redials should occur for dial failures, as per the ConnectionManager, but we should prevent redials caused due to shards mismatch.

Notes

• related to bug: constantly disconnects from a peer #1965