fixup! BLD/RFC: cleanup limited_api build logic

Author: neutrinoceros

setupext.py

@@ -434,7 +434,6 @@ def finalize_options(self):
                 compiler_directives={"language_level": 3},
                 nthreads=get_cpu_count(),
             )
-            super().finalize_options()
 
             if self.include_dirs is None:
                 self.include_dirs = include_dirs
@@ -446,6 +445,8 @@ def finalize_options(self):
             else:
                 self.define.extend(define_macros)
 
+            super().finalize_options()
+
         def build_extensions(self):
             self.check_extensions_list(self.extensions)