fix(runner): retire stale state-loss replays

[chubes4]

Summary

• revalidate state-loss replay operations against current remote daemon facts before replaying them
• retire disproven replay intent with typed durable evidence and a successor operation token
• preserve active-job protection while allowing exact live lease/PID adoption to proceed

Verification

• cargo fmt --check
• cargo check -p homeboy-lab-runner
• cargo test -p homeboy-lab-runner connection::tests::recovery --lib

AI assistance

OpenAI GPT-5.6 Terra (gpt-5.6-terra) via OpenCode investigated the replay boundary, implemented the reconciliation, and added deterministic coverage. Chris Huber remains responsible for every line.

[homeboy-ci]

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• CI results artifact: homeboy-ci-results-homeboy-review-audit-homeboy-fast-Linux contains immediate command JSON for this action invocation.
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Tooling versions

• Homeboy CLI: homeboy 0.334.0+4b53a934b6e7-dirty
• Extension: rust from https://github.com/Extra-Chill/homeboy-extensions
• Extension revision: 14fe68af
• Action: unknown@unknown

[chubes4]

Pushed 15567adf2c51f85dfe054c1245e4bd893fd1b4d4 to this PR: the deterministic endpoint fixture now remains available for 60s rather than 10s. The prior bound expired during the fixture's first adoption before the normal-connect assertion.

Verified: cargo test -p homeboy-lab-runner stale_state_loss_replay_is_retired_before_exact_live_lease_adoption --lib (passed).

Integration ordering note: #11908 must add retired_replay: None to its retire_rejected_state_loss_replacement() ReplacementOperation initializer once this PR's field is present; otherwise the combined build fails with E0063. Evidence is recorded on #11908.

AI assistance: OpenAI gpt-5.6-sol via OpenCode reproduced the fixture timeout, applied the focused test fix, and ran verification. Chris Huber remains responsible for this comment.

[chubes4]

Merged current main without rewriting history. The runner replay conflict now uses the owning evidence-backed terminal-refusal retirement path, avoiding the superseded extra pre-replay status probe.

Verification:

• cargo test -p homeboy-lab-runner connection::tests::recovery --lib: 70 passed
• cargo test -p homeboy-cli commands::runner::tests::status --lib: 20 passed
• Full cargo test -p homeboy-lab-runner exceeded the 10-minute local budget; its independently rerun failure is baseline: cargo test -p homeboy-lab-runner parsed_provider_availability_accepts_unique_extension_alias -- --nocapture fails identically on clean origin/main at 9d0dd2a99.

AI assistance: OpenAI GPT-5.6 Terra (gpt-5.6-terra) via OpenCode inspected CI artifacts, resolved the merge conflict to the owning upstream fix, and reproduced the unrelated baseline failure. Chris Huber remains responsible for every line.