Fix: Updating GeoIP default image and secret handling

[alix-graylog]

Fixing an incorrect default image tag for the GeoIP side car, and moving the GeoIP secret details to it's own, externally provided secret preffered as to not conflict with auto generated secrets.

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Testing Checklist

Static Validation

• Linter check passes: helm lint ./charts/graylog
• Helm renders local template sucessfully: helm template graylog ./charts/graylog --validate

Installation

• Fresh installation completes successfully: helm install graylog ./charts/graylog
• All pods reach Running state: kubectl rollout status statefulset/graylog
• Helm tests pass: helm test graylog

Functional (if applicable)

• Web UI accessible and login works
• DataNodes visible in System > Cluster Configuration
• Inputs can be created and receive data

Upgrade (if applicable)

• Upgrade from previous release succeeds
• Scaling up/down works correctly
• Configuration changes apply correctly

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