feat: support pod naming policy for collaset

[ColdsteelRail]

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Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 49.27536% with 35 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 38.67%. Comparing base (dea0beb) to head (ddf3da7).

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
...g/controllers/collaset/synccontrol/sync_control.go	0.00%	10 Missing ⚠️
pkg/controllers/collaset/podcontrol/pod_control.go	0.00%	8 Missing ⚠️
pkg/controllers/collaset/synccontrol/replace.go	0.00%	8 Missing ⚠️
pkg/controllers/collaset/synccontrol/update.go	0.00%	3 Missing ⚠️
pkg/controllers/collaset/utils/pod.go	50.00%	2 Missing and 1 partial ⚠️
pkg/controllers/collaset/collaset_controller.go	83.33%	0 Missing and 2 partials ⚠️
...rver/generic/collaset/collaset_mutating_handler.go	0.00%	1 Missing ⚠️

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+ Hits         3645     3666      +21     
- Misses       5469     5480      +11     
- Partials      333      334       +1     

Flag	Coverage Δ
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[zoumo]

LGTM