ci: add pytorch 2.11 to cpu tests

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What does this PR do?

Adds PyTorch 2.11 to the CPU test matrices for fabric and pytorch packages.

Additionally, this PR addresses a few compatibility changes necessary for PyTorch 2.11:

• Updates onnx-ir version requirement (>= 0.1.16) to satisfy PyTorch 2.11's ONNX dynamo exporter.
• Updates test_torch_autocast_cache_behavior_with_no_grad to account for an upstream fix in PyTorch 2.11 (PR #165068) which correctly prevents the autocast cache from erroneously retaining the no_grad state.
• Skips the xfail marker for makeDeviceForHostname(): unsupported gloo device on Windows for PyTorch >= 2.11, as this issue has been resolved upstream.

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