[release/2.10] Use triton with updated pyproject.toml to use cmake 4

[ethanwee1]

Fixes internal CI build failures on release/2.10 due to triton build. Build was able to pass the point where triton failed previously. e.g. https://ml-ci-internal.amd.com/blue/organizations/jenkins/pytorch%2Fpytorch-ci-pipeline/detail/release%2F2.10/31/pipeline

[rocm-repo-management-api]

Jenkins build for b9b1c9f3b77a1f2b01de721a6d05c2fd82edfa75 commit finished as NOT_BUILT
Links: Pipeline Overview / Build artifacts / Test Results

[rocm-repo-management-api]

Jenkins build for b9b1c9f3b77a1f2b01de721a6d05c2fd82edfa75 commit finished as FAILURE
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Detected error during Pytorch building:

/var/lib/jenkins/pytorch/torch/headeronly/macros/Export.h:130:9: note: previous definition is here
  130 | #define TORCH_HIP_API C10_IMPORT
      |         ^
2 warnings generated when compiling for host.
[7253/8132] Building HIPCC object caffe2/CMakeFiles/torch_hip.dir/__/aten/src/ATen/native/hip/torch_hip_generated_ck_gemm_float.hip.o
FAILED: caffe2/CMakeFiles/torch_hip.dir/__/aten/src/ATen/native/hip/torch_hip_generated_ck_gemm_float.hip.o /var/lib/jenkins/pytorch/build/caffe2/CMakeFiles/torch_hip.dir/__/aten/src/ATen/native/hip/torch_hip_generated_ck_gemm_float.hip.o 
cd /var/lib/jenkins/pytorch/build/caffe2/CMakeFiles/torch_hip.dir/__/aten/src/ATen/native/hip && /opt/conda/envs/py_3.12/lib/python3.12/site-packages/cmake/data/bin/cmake -E make_directory /var/lib/jenkins/pytorch/build/caffe2/CMakeFiles/torch_hip.dir/__/aten/src/ATen/native/hip/. && /opt/conda/envs/py_3.12/lib/python3.12/site-packages/cmake/data/bin/cmake -D verbose:BOOL=OFF -D build_configuration:STRING=RELEASE -D generated_file:STRING=/var/lib/jenkins/pytorch/build/caffe2/CMakeFiles/torch_hip.dir/__/aten/src/ATen/native/hip/./torch_hip_generated_ck_gemm_float.hip.o -P /var/lib/jenkins/pytorch/build/caffe2/CMakeFiles/torch_hip.dir/__/aten/src/ATen/native/hip/torch_hip_generated_ck_gemm_float.hip.o.cmake
sccache: encountered fatal error
sccache: error: Failed to parse included file path
sccache: caused by: Failed to parse included file path
failed to execute:/opt/rocm/llvm/bin/clang++  --offload-arch=gfx90a --offload-arch=gfx908 --offload-arch=gfx942 -O3  -c -x hip /var/lib/jenkins/pytorch/aten/src/ATen/native/hip/ck_gemm_float.hip -o "/var/lib/jenkins/pytorch/build/caffe2/CMakeFiles/torch_hip.dir/__/aten/src/ATen/native/hip/./torch_hip_generated_ck_gemm_float.hip.o" --offload-compress -fclang-abi-compat=17 -DUSE_NCCL -DUSE_ROCM -D__HIP_PLATFORM_AMD__ -DUSE_FLASH_ATTENTION -DFLASHATTENTION_DISABLE_ALIBI -DFLASHATTENTION_DISABLE_SOFTCAP -DFLASH_NAMESPACE=pytorch_flash -DUNFUSE_FMA -DUSE_MEM_EFF_ATTENTION -DUSE_C10D_NCCL -DTORCH_HIP_BUILD_MAIN_LIB -DROCM_VERSION=70201 -DTORCH_HIP_VERSION=702 -DUSE_LAYERNORM_FAST_RECIPROCAL -DONNX_ML=1 -DONNXIFI_ENABLE_EXT=1 -DONNX_NAMESPACE=onnx_torch -DIDEEP_USE_MKL -DHAVE_MMAP=1 -D_FILE_OFFSET_BITS=64 -DHAVE_SHM_OPEN=1 -DHAVE_SHM_UNLINK=1 -DHAVE_MALLOC_USABLE_SIZE=1 -DHAVE_POSIX_FALLOCATE=1 -DUSE_EXTERNAL_MZCRC -DMINIZ_DISABLE_ZIP_READER_CRC32_CHECKS -D__HIP_PLATFORM_AMD__=1 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