[Improve] add thrfit max message size option

[JNSimba]

Proposed changes

Caused by: org.apache.doris.shaded.org.apache.thrift.transport.TTransportException: MaxMessageSize reached
    at org.apache.doris.shaded.org.apache.thrift.transport.TEndpointTransport.checkReadBytesAvailable(TEndpointTransport.java:81)
    at org.apache.doris.shaded.org.apache.thrift.protocol.TBinaryProtocol.checkStringReadLength(TBinaryProtocol.java:444)
    at org.apache.doris.shaded.org.apache.thrift.protocol.TBinaryProtocol.readStringBody(TBinaryProtocol.java:415)
    at org.apache.doris.shaded.org.apache.thrift.protocol.TBinaryProtocol.readMessageBegin(TBinaryProtocol.java:256)
    at org.apache.doris.shaded.org.apache.thrift.TServiceClient.receiveBase(TServiceClient.java:77)
    at org.apache.doris.sdk.thrift.TDorisExternalService$Client.recvGetNext(TDorisExternalService.java:92)
    at org.apache.doris.sdk.thrift.TDorisExternalService$Client.getNext(TDorisExternalService.java:79)
    at org.apache.doris.flink.backend.BackendClient.getNext(BackendClient.java:185)
    ... 10 more 

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1. Does it affect the original behavior: (Yes/No/I Don't know)
2. Has unit tests been added: (Yes/No/No Need)
3. Has document been added or modified: (Yes/No/No Need)
4. Does it need to update dependencies: (Yes/No)
5. Are there any changes that cannot be rolled back: (Yes/No)

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