Improve error message when column's serialized size exceed the smoosher’s maximum

[abhishekrb19]

When the serialized size of a column exceeds 2 GB (the smoosher’s maximum) due to large blobs in a specific column, the ingestion task fails with the following stack trace - it doesn't indicate the problematic column:

java.lang.RuntimeException: org.apache.druid.java.util.common.IAE: Asked to add buffers[2,171,458,617] larger than configured max[2,147,483,647]
	at org.apache.druid.segment.realtime.appenderator.StreamAppenderator.mergeAndPush(StreamAppenderator.java:1015) ~[druid-server-32.0.1.jar:32.0.1]
	at org.apache.druid.segment.realtime.appenderator.StreamAppenderator.lambda$push$1(StreamAppenderator.java:826) ~[druid-server-32.0.1.jar:32.0.1]
	at com.google.common.util.concurrent.AbstractTransformFuture$TransformFuture.doTransform(AbstractTransformFuture.java:252) ~[guava-32.0.1-jre.jar:?]
	at com.google.common.util.concurrent.AbstractTransformFuture$TransformFuture.doTransform(AbstractTransformFuture.java:242) ~[guava-32.0.1-jre.jar:?]
	at com.google.common.util.concurrent.AbstractTransformFuture.run(AbstractTransformFuture.java:123) [guava-32.0.1-jre.jar:?]
	at java.base/java.util.concurrent.ThreadPoolExecutor.runWorker(ThreadPoolExecutor.java:1136) [?:?]
	at java.base/java.util.concurrent.ThreadPoolExecutor$Worker.run(ThreadPoolExecutor.java:635) [?:?]
	at java.base/java.lang.Thread.run(Thread.java:840) [?:?]
Caused by: org.apache.druid.java.util.common.IAE: Asked to add buffers[2,171,458,617] larger than configured max[2,147,483,647]
	at org.apache.druid.java.util.common.io.smoosh.FileSmoosher.addWithSmooshedWriter(FileSmoosher.java:176) ~[druid-processing-32.0.1.jar:32.0.1]
	at org.apache.druid.segment.IndexMergerV9.makeColumn(IndexMergerV9.java:788) ~[druid-processing-32.0.1.jar:32.0.1]
	at org.apache.druid.segment.IndexMergerV9.makeIndexFiles(IndexMergerV9.java:291) ~[druid-processing-32.0.1.jar:32.0.1]
	at org.apache.druid.segment.IndexMergerV9.merge(IndexMergerV9.java:1359) ~[druid-processing-32.0.1.jar:32.0.1]
	at org.apache.druid.segment.IndexMergerV9.multiphaseMerge(IndexMergerV9.java:1177) ~[druid-processing-32.0.1.jar:32.0.1]
	at org.apache.druid.segment.IndexMergerV9.mergeQueryableIndex(IndexMergerV9.java:1119) ~[druid-processing-32.0.1.jar:32.0.1]
	at org.apache.druid.segment.realtime.appenderator.StreamAppenderator.mergeAndPush(StreamAppenderator.java:957) ~[druid-server-32.0.1.jar:32.0.1]

With this patch, the DruidException message includes the column name along with a few remediation suggestions as follows:

Serialized buffer size[10] for column[foo] exceeds the maximum[5]. Consider adjusting the tuningConfig - for example, reduce maxRowsPerSegment, or partition your data further.

This PR has:

• been self-reviewed.
• added unit tests or modified existing tests to cover new code paths, ensuring the threshold for code coverage is met.