Kafka Connect: Add option to fail connector task after max retries

[dttung2905]

Hi team,

I add a few more configs:

  private static final String COMMIT_MAX_RETRIES_PROP = "iceberg.control.commit.max-retries";
  private static final int COMMIT_MAX_RETRIES_DEFAULT = 3;
  private static final String COMMIT_MIN_RETRY_WAIT_MS_PROP = "iceberg.control.commit.min-retry-wait-ms";
  private static final int COMMIT_MIN_RETRY_WAIT_MS_DEFAULT = 100;
  private static final String COMMIT_MAX_RETRY_WAIT_MS_PROP = "iceberg.control.commit.max-retry-wait-ms";
  private static final int COMMIT_MAX_RETRY_WAIT_MS_DEFAULT = 60_000;
  private static final String COMMIT_TOTAL_RETRY_TIME_MS_PROP = "iceberg.control.commit.total-retry-time-ms";
  private static final int COMMIT_TOTAL_RETRY_TIME_MS_DEFAULT = 300_000; // 5 minutes
  public static final String FAIL_ON_MAX_COMMIT_RETRIES = "fail.on.max.commit.retries";
  public static final boolean FAIL_ON_MAX_COMMIT_RETRIES_DEFAULT = false;

if we set fail.on.max.commit.retries=true, the connector task will fails after some retries. The default value of fail.on.max.commit.retries is false to maintain backward compatibility

Fixes #13117