KAFKA-18877: Add an mechanism to find cases where we accessed variables from the wrong thread.

[frankvicky]

JIRA: KAFKA-18877

This PR is plan to add a "safe access" interface to the *ControlManager class to make sure they don't expose the unsafe methods.

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