[Fix][Connector-V2] Fix issue of out-of-order fields in cdc

[corgy-w]

Reference：io.debezium.jdbc.JdbcConnection

    public <T extends DatabaseSchema<TableId>> Object[] rowToArray(Table table, T databaseSchema, ResultSet rs,
                                                                   ColumnUtils.ColumnArray columnArray)
            throws SQLException {
        final Object[] row = new Object[columnArray.getGreatestColumnPosition()];
        for (int i = 0; i < columnArray.getColumns().length; i++) {
            row[columnArray.getColumns()[i].position() - 1] = getColumnValue(rs, i + 1,
                    columnArray.getColumns()[i], table, databaseSchema);
        }
        return row;
    }

set column.include.list =xx

The field order changes, this bug needs to be fixed

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