Roll back TLS 1.3 Support for Windows

What's Changed

• fix java arm ci by @DmitriyMusatkin in #869
• Fix arm cross compilation by @DmitriyMusatkin in #871
• update submodule aws-c-io to remove TLS 1.3 for win by @sbSteveK in #870

Full Changelog: v0.36.0...v0.36.1