feat(p2p): support autotls using IP shipyard

[koenmtb1]

Adding support for autotls as discussed in #4203

Some work to be done

• Add tests
• Align on approach
• Write docs

[codecov-commenter]

Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 20.58824% with 54 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 44.67%. Comparing base (2469e7a) to head (3a5b328).
Report is 484 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
nodebuilder/p2p/autotls.go	0.00%	28 Missing ⚠️
nodebuilder/p2p/flags.go	0.00%	13 Missing ⚠️
nodebuilder/p2p/tls.go	50.00%	8 Missing ⚠️
nodebuilder/init.go	25.00%	2 Missing and 1 partial ⚠️
nodebuilder/store.go	50.00%	2 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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##             main    #4212      +/-   ##
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- Coverage   44.83%   44.67%   -0.17%     
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  Files         265      313      +48     
  Lines       14620    23027    +8407     
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+ Hits         6555    10287    +3732     
- Misses       7313    11619    +4306     
- Partials      752     1121     +369     

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