Refactor chapel-py to use the C Python Stable API

[jabraham17]

Refactors chapel-py to only use the C Python Stable API when possible. This means that chapel-py will no longer be constrained to run with the Python version it was built with. This allows users more flexibility in how they use chapel-py.

Due to limitations within Python, we can only use the stable API with python 3.10+. Previous versions had stable API's that were missing key features chapel-py relies on. So for previous versions, the previous limitations apply.

Its is expected that this PR will have a performance hit. Its not clear how much of an impact this will have.

TODO: make sure 'module' is set
TODO: fix the pyi generation
TODO: check that docs still work
TODO: cleanup build process/deps folders

Testing:

• Building with Python 3.13
  • run start_test test/chplcheck and make test-cls with Python 3.13
  • run start_test test/chplcheck and make test-cls with Python 3.12
  • run start_test test/chplcheck and make test-cls with Python 3.11
  • run start_test test/chplcheck and make test-cls with Python 3.10
• Building with Python 3.10
  • run start_test test/chplcheck and make test-cls with Python 3.13
  • run start_test test/chplcheck and make test-cls with Python 3.12
  • run start_test test/chplcheck and make test-cls with Python 3.11
  • run start_test test/chplcheck and make test-cls with Python 3.10
• run start_test test/chplcheck and make test-cls with Python 3.9