feat: add helper method to retreive extra resources

[twobiers]

Description of your changes

This PR adds a simple helper function to retrieve an extra resource from the request.
Previously one had to write something like this in the template to retrieve a single resource:

{{- $bucket := mustFirst (index (index .extraResources "bucket") "items") }}

With the helper function it simplifies to:

{{- $bucket := mustFirst (getExtraResources "bucket") }}

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[bobh66]

One nit and one question otherwise LGTM - thanks @twobiers

[bobh66]

Thanks for the extra cleanup @twobiers - LGTM