remove proxies from task/family data-store objects

[dwsutherland]

closes #6689

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• Does not contain off-topic changes (use other PRs for other changes).
• Applied any dependency changes to both setup.cfg (and conda-environment.yml if present).
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[MetRonnie]

I've pushed a changelog entry (even though this change is really unlikely to affect anyone)